A week in the life
Okay, I'm making myself sit down to write this blog. There are dishes in the sink, clothes to be folded, loads of laundry to start, bills to pay, so I really "don't have time," but, I'm beginning to realize that these things will always be around and there will never be a good time to sit down and record what's going on; so, I just have to do it.
One of the things that I really wanted to record for the blog is "a week in the life" at our house. This may seem mundane, but I think it will be good for us to have a snapshot of these times to look back on later in life. So, here goes:
Monday: I wake up around 7-7:30, quickly nurse Eden (who by this time has begun to stir in bed next to me) back to sleep and quickly run to eat breakfast, help Grant get out the door, and prepare for the day. Eden usually wakes up at about 8:30-9, and from then until about 10, we play, I get her dressed and I *try* to get more housework done.
Around 10, I stick Eden in the stroller and we go for a walk. The weather has been beautiful! We walk all around the neighborhood. Eden is totally fascinated with everything these days - cars, plants, animals, other people, etc. - and I am really trying to get back into those pre-prego jeans, so the walk is good for both of us. ; )
We usually get back by 11 and by the time that I shower, nurse Eden, do a load of laundry, nurse a little more, eat lunch, blow dry my hair, play with Eden, nurse again, do a whirlwind pickup and pack up my stuff, it's 1pm-2pm and it's time for us to leave. Seriously, before I had a baby, I never understood how simple things - like getting out the door and doing a few bits of housework - could take so long! This was one of the big adjustments of motherhood: the slower pace of getting "work" done. I've really had to adjust my thinking to count all those "interruptions" - the dirty diaper that needs to be changed, the little coo that says "pick me up," the hours of nursing - as part of my job. In fact, they are the most important part of my job! I'm learning to just try to do less and enjoy these times with my little girl.
On Mondays I take Eden to my parent's house around 2, then drive to The Houston Music Institute and teach piano lessons from 3:15-7:45 (eight students). My Mondays go rather quickly; I have a fast-paced schedule of students, and I use every spare minute to reschedule missed lessons, select new music, talk & plan with the other teachers, plan for the week ahead and attend to the bookkeeping of running a music studio. While I'm gone, Eden hangs out primarily with my mom ("Gran"), but also gets to see her three uncles and "Pops." They are great about playing with her and also just packing her up to go with them to run errands, drop Ryan off at football, etc. Mom took this pic as Eden helped her pick out plants from a nursery; (this was right after she figured how to drink milk from a sippy cup):
My mom brings her back to our house in the early evening, and Grant takes over around 5:30. Grant has a good rhythm going with her: from about 5:30 - 6:30 he changes, plays with and feeds her. Then, they go on another walk to the playground where they swing, slide, and climb all over the playset for about an hour. Then, Grant brings her back home, and he then eats, plays and dances with her. He is an attentive, playful and doting dad. One of the great joys of my life has been watching this man I love "discover" how much he loves our girl and loves just being a dad. I never worry about Eden when she is with him and I am really glad that they get to have some alone time together throughout the week.
I'm home about 8:30pm and - can I just take a moment to say - I look forward to this moment everyday. As soon as I come in through the door Eden sees me and gives me the biggest smile. It's the best part of my day! I get some dinner, hang out with Grant, do some more work and then we all go to bed. We're all asleep by about 11pm.
Tuesday: These days are pretty similar to Monday, except that I take Eden to Grant's parents' house in the afternoon. There Eden gets to play with "Grandmother Gigi" and "Grandfather Rio." Grant usually goes to their house after work, and they have dinner and hang out together until I get home around 7:30pm. On Tuesdays, I teach from 2:15-6:45 (five students and three classes). Tuesdays are the days that I teach a couple of classes and - for a myriad of reasons - they are usually tougher days to get through.
Wednesday: Wednesdays are not as predictable. Often, Grant goes in to work a little later (because he stays through church in the evening), so we get to spend a little more time with him in the morning, which is always a treat! The second Wednesday of the month, Eden and I pack up and head into town for our Houston Teachers' Association Meeting. Besides just being a member, I am in charge of HMTA's manual and website, so these meetings are a must. Also, we are a part of a super-fun playgroup that meets every other Wednesday from 11-1pm and we try to make that when we are not too worn out. Around 2:45pm, I take Eden back to my parents' house and - because Grant stays up at church until after evening service is over - my mom hangs out with Eden until about 8:30, when I get home.
For Grant, Wednesdays are full of staff meetings and other meetings. He eats dinner up at church and then, when he doesn't have a Leadership Team meeting to lead, he attends a mens' group on Wednesday night. For Grant personally, this is an important time for him to be "filled" and he is able to "take off his 'staff' hat" and just be a member of the group. So, this time is a priority to him. Whenever he comes home from mens' group I can tell that his batteries are "recharged" and he always has good stories to tell....
Up at HMI, I teach from 3:45-7:15 (six students). Teaching on Wednesday is a lot like teaching on Monday: it's fast-paced and usually goes by rather quickly.
However, by Wednesday evening, I am usually feeling a little panicked. I'm feeling a bit "behind" in housework, I am really missing spending all day with Eden, I feel like it's been a while since I've seen Grant and I am just tired. I am a homebody and by Wednesday I am REALLY needing some time at home.
Thursday: I teach piano lessons from my home ("The Wright Music Studio") on an off from 10:30am-6pm (seven students). Eden is with me all day, even during some of my lessons, except for the couple of hours my mom takes her while I teach my youngest students.
Thursdays are fun because my youngest brother, Ryan, comes over for several hours after he gets done with classes. He teaches two guitar students under the umbrella of my studio, takes piano lessons from me and is a great help with Eden. But, I mostly enjoy being with him because he is crazy fun to be around! He is hilarious and we keep each other in stitches in between talking music theory and politics. He was just seven when I left to go to college, so we have enjoyed this "catch up" time.
Thursdays are busy for Grant as well. He is usually trying to finish up all his projects and prepare for Sunday morning. After that, he usually gets home around six, and soon after and we head to our First Family (our small group from church). We both love this time to be with some of our closest friends and "re-center" our lives. Sundays are usually "work days" for us, so Thursday nights are very important as "church" to us...
Friday & Saturday: On the weekend, we try as best we can to keep as least one of these days totally free of scheduled events. There are always more things we could do, but we do our best to "hang low" and take a "Sabbath" over the weekend. On those days, we sleep in as long as possible and usually just hang out talking and playing with Eden for a while before we "get moving." After that, we may tackle projects or go to events, but we really put a priority on rest and communication. Our perfect free day involves going on a walk, playing with Eden, hitting up a few garage sales, getting a couple of small things crossed off the list, "checking in" with each other, eating pizza and watching a movie. : )
Resting has always been hard for me; I like to get things done and be productive. However, I am learning that really all that matters - really - are the people in my life. And, when I put a priority on being with them life is much better. Grant has helped me so much with this; it is in his nature to "take things slowly" and "appreciate the little things." This is one of the things that I love about him the most, and it's also one of the reasons that I need to be married to him! Ha!
Sunday: Sunday morning, Grant is up and gone by about 7:30. When he gets to church, there is no telling what he'll be doing. It could be anything from setting up a classroom to meeting visitors to printing handouts to preparing to teach.... Eden and I make it to church in time for class and 2nd service and usually run around helping Grant. Sundays at church are fairly scattered for us. After church, we usually go out to eat with Grant's parents or some of our friends. About twice a month, Eden and I attend a shower in the afternoon or we'll all go to some other church event. Later in the afternoon, we hang out with Grant and do a MASSIVE cooking session to prepare for the week ahead. (I cook - literally - once a week and portion out meals. I even pre-make sandwiches. Seriously. I just don't mess with meals during the week!) Every Sunday evening, Grant goes to another First Family while Eden and I finish up cooking, cleaning and playing.
One of the things that I really wanted to record for the blog is "a week in the life" at our house. This may seem mundane, but I think it will be good for us to have a snapshot of these times to look back on later in life. So, here goes:
Monday: I wake up around 7-7:30, quickly nurse Eden (who by this time has begun to stir in bed next to me) back to sleep and quickly run to eat breakfast, help Grant get out the door, and prepare for the day. Eden usually wakes up at about 8:30-9, and from then until about 10, we play, I get her dressed and I *try* to get more housework done.
We usually get back by 11 and by the time that I shower, nurse Eden, do a load of laundry, nurse a little more, eat lunch, blow dry my hair, play with Eden, nurse again, do a whirlwind pickup and pack up my stuff, it's 1pm-2pm and it's time for us to leave. Seriously, before I had a baby, I never understood how simple things - like getting out the door and doing a few bits of housework - could take so long! This was one of the big adjustments of motherhood: the slower pace of getting "work" done. I've really had to adjust my thinking to count all those "interruptions" - the dirty diaper that needs to be changed, the little coo that says "pick me up," the hours of nursing - as part of my job. In fact, they are the most important part of my job! I'm learning to just try to do less and enjoy these times with my little girl.
I'm home about 8:30pm and - can I just take a moment to say - I look forward to this moment everyday. As soon as I come in through the door Eden sees me and gives me the biggest smile. It's the best part of my day! I get some dinner, hang out with Grant, do some more work and then we all go to bed. We're all asleep by about 11pm.
Tuesday: These days are pretty similar to Monday, except that I take Eden to Grant's parents' house in the afternoon. There Eden gets to play with "Grandmother Gigi" and "Grandfather Rio." Grant usually goes to their house after work, and they have dinner and hang out together until I get home around 7:30pm. On Tuesdays, I teach from 2:15-6:45 (five students and three classes). Tuesdays are the days that I teach a couple of classes and - for a myriad of reasons - they are usually tougher days to get through.
Wednesday: Wednesdays are not as predictable. Often, Grant goes in to work a little later (because he stays through church in the evening), so we get to spend a little more time with him in the morning, which is always a treat! The second Wednesday of the month, Eden and I pack up and head into town for our Houston Teachers' Association Meeting. Besides just being a member, I am in charge of HMTA's manual and website, so these meetings are a must. Also, we are a part of a super-fun playgroup that meets every other Wednesday from 11-1pm and we try to make that when we are not too worn out. Around 2:45pm, I take Eden back to my parents' house and - because Grant stays up at church until after evening service is over - my mom hangs out with Eden until about 8:30, when I get home.
For Grant, Wednesdays are full of staff meetings and other meetings. He eats dinner up at church and then, when he doesn't have a Leadership Team meeting to lead, he attends a mens' group on Wednesday night. For Grant personally, this is an important time for him to be "filled" and he is able to "take off his 'staff' hat" and just be a member of the group. So, this time is a priority to him. Whenever he comes home from mens' group I can tell that his batteries are "recharged" and he always has good stories to tell....
Up at HMI, I teach from 3:45-7:15 (six students). Teaching on Wednesday is a lot like teaching on Monday: it's fast-paced and usually goes by rather quickly.
However, by Wednesday evening, I am usually feeling a little panicked. I'm feeling a bit "behind" in housework, I am really missing spending all day with Eden, I feel like it's been a while since I've seen Grant and I am just tired. I am a homebody and by Wednesday I am REALLY needing some time at home.
Thursday: I teach piano lessons from my home ("The Wright Music Studio") on an off from 10:30am-6pm (seven students). Eden is with me all day, even during some of my lessons, except for the couple of hours my mom takes her while I teach my youngest students.
Thursdays are fun because my youngest brother, Ryan, comes over for several hours after he gets done with classes. He teaches two guitar students under the umbrella of my studio, takes piano lessons from me and is a great help with Eden. But, I mostly enjoy being with him because he is crazy fun to be around! He is hilarious and we keep each other in stitches in between talking music theory and politics. He was just seven when I left to go to college, so we have enjoyed this "catch up" time.
Thursdays are busy for Grant as well. He is usually trying to finish up all his projects and prepare for Sunday morning. After that, he usually gets home around six, and soon after and we head to our First Family (our small group from church). We both love this time to be with some of our closest friends and "re-center" our lives. Sundays are usually "work days" for us, so Thursday nights are very important as "church" to us...
Friday & Saturday: On the weekend, we try as best we can to keep as least one of these days totally free of scheduled events. There are always more things we could do, but we do our best to "hang low" and take a "Sabbath" over the weekend. On those days, we sleep in as long as possible and usually just hang out talking and playing with Eden for a while before we "get moving." After that, we may tackle projects or go to events, but we really put a priority on rest and communication. Our perfect free day involves going on a walk, playing with Eden, hitting up a few garage sales, getting a couple of small things crossed off the list, "checking in" with each other, eating pizza and watching a movie. : )
Resting has always been hard for me; I like to get things done and be productive. However, I am learning that really all that matters - really - are the people in my life. And, when I put a priority on being with them life is much better. Grant has helped me so much with this; it is in his nature to "take things slowly" and "appreciate the little things." This is one of the things that I love about him the most, and it's also one of the reasons that I need to be married to him! Ha!
Sunday: Sunday morning, Grant is up and gone by about 7:30. When he gets to church, there is no telling what he'll be doing. It could be anything from setting up a classroom to meeting visitors to printing handouts to preparing to teach.... Eden and I make it to church in time for class and 2nd service and usually run around helping Grant. Sundays at church are fairly scattered for us. After church, we usually go out to eat with Grant's parents or some of our friends. About twice a month, Eden and I attend a shower in the afternoon or we'll all go to some other church event. Later in the afternoon, we hang out with Grant and do a MASSIVE cooking session to prepare for the week ahead. (I cook - literally - once a week and portion out meals. I even pre-make sandwiches. Seriously. I just don't mess with meals during the week!) Every Sunday evening, Grant goes to another First Family while Eden and I finish up cooking, cleaning and playing.
Sounds like you have a great life. You have a lot of things figured out that many people with MANY more years of experience have yet to figure out.
ReplyDeleteWoah, I'm exhausted and I only read it! Thanks for writing this! I feel like I have a much more clear picture on your life, which is funny because we talk on the phone like every day! HAH!
ReplyDeleteLove it! I am not a good rester either... working on that myself. I enjoyed reading -- post more often!
ReplyDeleteSame here - not good at resting. Working on it everyday. Having a sick baby this past week helped me slow down and realize it is OK to just enjoy my baby and spend lots of time cuddling. Housework can wait.
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